Cornishman

Evening people.

What a weird night.
Couldn't take being could shouldered by the woman any longer. Especially after her unprovoked attack on me.

So I turned up on her doorstep, she was in her house chillin' with her ex.
It's all such a headfuck.

The sudden split.
The lack of explanation.
The fact her ex can even be in a room with her/us after our 3 month affair.

And there we were, all sat together smoking spliffs conversing like civilised adults.

My head is flummoxed.

I would be completely flummoxed by that situation too, like that word, flummoxed. I can't ever imagine smoking a spliff whilst hanging out with my ex angelsmoke at her house if she had a new boyfriend who was a weed smoker, it would be pretty strange. At least is was nice and civil, well it sounds like it was anyway and I guess that sets a good tone for the future of a friendship with the ex that can work out well.

I agree I would be headfucked too by that though thinking about it after the fact, but maybe it's best just to do and not think about things like that sometimes as it often leads to a nice time although don't take it for granted as it could one day change and be totally different if you were to turn up at the doorstep spliff in hand.